Here it is, in no particular order:There is much power in the written word. I have found a way to exercise it without coming off as a bitch… and the impact of my recent words will be far reaching. Now, if only I could be a fly on the wall….And speaking of words….I am pretty … Continue reading Revelations – and What I Learned This Week 8/20
Revelations – and What I Learned This Week
Here it is, in no particular order.In the state of Maryland, squatters have legal rights to a property if they have been occupying it for a minimum of 5 days. Whether they have a lease, or not. So check this out: say you go to Maryland to visit your old college roommate and you stay … Continue reading Revelations – and What I Learned This Week
It’s Over – Our Children in the Middle
Divorce is not pretty. It’s not pretty for you, it’s not pretty for him… and it is NOT pretty for the children who have to cope with their lives changing forever. Now here’s the part where I tell you – and you will hear this refrain over and over in the divorce and custody … Continue reading It’s Over – Our Children in the Middle
Wedding Joy
We did it! We finally pulled off the wedding event everyone has been waiting for. It was questionable for a while, given the ongoing custody litigation and the accompanying exorbitant legal expenses. While most couples begin the planning process soon after engagement, we really put it off for 5 months. For a date we … Continue reading Wedding Joy
It’s Over. Now What?
This is part 2 of my drama series. I will call it drama – because there’s no Joy in this. I created this series of posts in an effort to help those who aren’t where I am yet, and to remind them they aren’t alone. It’s a scary road, once you step outside your … Continue reading It’s Over. Now What?
It’s Over. Can I Help?
Ok so several people have suggested that I write something resembling an advice piece, based on my recent (not to mention traumatic) experiences; however, my intent was to save it all until my own trial was over. Unfortunately it has come to my attention that there are more than a few beautiful women out … Continue reading It’s Over. Can I Help?
My (Final) Resignation
Dear Sir,I solemnly regret to inform you that I can no longer participate in your charade and hereby resign from my position in same.I regret that I am not miserable, angry, or otherwise vindictive.I regret that I could not bring myself to strike you, no matter how much you have deserved it.I regret that – … Continue reading My (Final) Resignation
Acronyms for the Newly Divorced
It’s been a long arduous road, friends, and it aint over yet. For those of you who severed a marriage and never have to look back – or look at – the insignificant other whose nose you wanted to shove a wine cork into on many a sleepless night – and for the rest of … Continue reading Acronyms for the Newly Divorced
What’s In YOUR Mailbox?
What I found in my mailbox today: Monthly Bank Statement. Aren’t these just about obsolete? I mean, don’t we all do our banking online now? I probably shouldn’t admit this, but I never even look at these anymore. Oh well, need kindling for the fire. Kohl’s card for $10 in … Continue reading What’s In YOUR Mailbox?
La Vida Loca
Ok, so I’ve been MIA for a while. I have a really good excuse. But before we get to that, I haven’t actually been hiding. I’m the woman in front of you in the self check-out line, scanning fruits without codes and struggling to fit all my groceries into one bag on that one little square foot of … Continue reading La Vida Loca